ROYALS / THE PRINCESS FACTOR

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i have always been anti-princess. even though that was the name my dad used to call me and it was filled with such good memories. i just never favoured the word when referring to my girls. when they were born people would ask, “awwww, how’s your little princess?” and i would cringe inside. i know, i’m so mean right?

but daani just loves to be called princess. she believes in her heart of hearts that she is. and that niyya is as well. and that her papa is king and i’m the queen. queen mummy to be exact. lol.

and at first it didn’t sit right with me. mainly because i know what i know and those titles get thrown around so loosely and get used and abused. and that kings can be monsters and princesses can be spoiled. and that the pre-fab fairytales that i grew up on, that are everywhere you turn these days are not ideals and dreams i want my daughters to buy into. at all.

and so, i’m just not about that. princess this and princess that.

but i’m starting to realize her view of it is true. and pure and special. so i’m starting to think it’s sweet. since this started way back when she was two, we’ve talked about what kind of princess she is. and adjectives i want her to hold close and adopt as characteristics are always on heavy rotation.

BE KIND / tahsin, the goodYOU LEAD / I'LL FOLLOW / tahsin, the good

she is a strong, caring, gentle, creative, courageous, thoughtful, helpful and kind princess. she prays for people, and shares with people and loves people. and she loves herself. not in the selfish, vain way. in the wholesome, ever-important, oft-overlooked, self-love kind of way. she is that kind of princess. and that’s something i will forever be cool with.

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tahs

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A LONG WALK / SPORTING LIFE 10K

i just registered for my first run. it’s something i have wanted to do for a while, it just kept getting pushed to the back-burner. that, and the fact i am not a runner.

not yet, at least.

more of a wannabe. and truth be told, i’m just barely a walker. it gets really bad in the winter months. it’s all car, car, car up here. and that’s ok because it’s freezing out. hello -30.

but i really want to/need to get moving. and outside at that. it’s around this time every year, in the thick of this unbearable cold, that i long for warmer and sunnier days. and this run comes at such a good time for me. there are 16 weeks until it and therefore 16 weeks to train. and i’ve been encouraged time and again that it is very doable.

and not to fear.

to just do it.

so i’ll be going on a lot of long walks in the next little bit to warm myself up a bit for this run. and i may walk, jog, run or even stroll at times along the way. i’ve decided not to put too much pressure on myself in this regard. i’m going to do what i can. as long as i’m striving i’m doing something worthwhile.

join me, on a long walk or in the run. it’s the sporting life 10k and i’ll be doing it with a few of my favorite gals on mother’s day. it seems like a fun thing to do for ourselves on our day, no? come on, let’s do this! you have one month until the prices go up again.

x

ps. while writing this post i was calling this 10k a marathon, then realized that it is definitely NOT a marathon. that would be crazy town.

pps. this photo and so many other insprirational ones comes from nike women. they make working out look so so good.

ORGANIZATIONAL BEHAVIOUR / GETTING ORGANIZED

i’m trying to get organized. a new year is almost upon us and i don’t feel like playing catch up on my goals, aspirations and dreams then. i have been getting by on the last-minute tip for a long time and i realize it’s not how i want to go further. i want to be prepared for 2015. to actually live purposefully and full of intent vs just saying it. i resolve to do this type of thing every year, and as resolutions go, they somehow just fall by the wayside. but this time around i plan to be more prepared for what i want to come.

you create your own destiny.

that’s what resolutions are for. and even if they get broken it’s important to make them. to achieve or “fail” is besides the point. it’s about assessing and re-assessing as you go. making progress.

resolve n. a firm determination to do something.

and i have that - the determination to do something part, down. it’s the firm part that comes in the way a bit. but that’s another story.

so i’m getting organized and first up is planning a few fun events for the year, (soup and salad exchanges - yes… plural, cozy ted talks screenings, clothing swaps…,) some new features for the blog (i’ll be sharing more on each of these as they become more solidified plans,) working more consistently on my goods + art and of course taking my photography workshop to new heights and insha’allah reaching many, many more people.

the thing is i’m notorious (to myself) for being all over the place, with notes here and there, on my phone (awesome note, evernote, the built-in notes, text messages to myself…,) on notepads, loose papers, in a notebook, in my head. it’s just all too much and i can’t keep track of my thoughts. my desk space is not working for me and i’m rarely ever at it. things are piling up, there’s so much to do, yet i often blank when i have time to do things.

its ok, but come on… get it together already!

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i’m looking at the root causes of my disorganization and coming up with solutions to make things work better. efficiencies. productivity. etc, etc.

these are a few of the things i’ve picked up on while working on getting organized so that i can live and work with purpose.

1. dailies / decide on a list of daily tasks that you complete everyday. they should align with your life goals and aren’t meant to be specific tasks. more broad-based and covers the important things. they can be as many or few as you like. everyday i’ll aim to do them. and everyday, i’ll check them off my list. this practice is good because it instils habitual behaviour, which i lack, and aims to keep me on my life course.

2. five things / another list, but this one is of specific and achievable tasks to accomplish that day. these things will likely overlap with your dailies and that’s a good thing. it’s kind of the point. get these done and everything else you do that day is gravy. i’m still determining if its better for me to write my five things the night before, or the morning of.

3. everything has a place / tidy up as you go. i try to implement this with my kids all the time, but have not been the biggest practitioner of late. im leaning towards minimalism more and more these days and have been doing major sweeps in the house getting rid of the many unnecessary objects hanging around so that this tip is easier to accomplish.

4. use a calendar and planner / i have been meaning to get a family calendar for the wall for a while now, but the designer in me isn’t satisfied with what’s been available. i realize that i need to get over it to get into it. in this case practicality is going to have to trump aesthetics. (this calender is gorgeous, but doesn’t fit my needs…) i want to be able to see on a full-page what is coming up for us short-term and what i have to look forward to on the horizon. the calendar on my phone has important dates in it, but not everyone can see it and i believe the daily visual is to its success. i like this calendar and this planner seems to be exactly what i’m looking for. what a great idea to balance goals, dreams, and actionable tasks in one place!

5. balance planning and being flexible / i have a tendency to let that day take me one way or another. i say yes a lot. im down for fun, so i’m a good friend and partner for adventure, but it’s taking a toll on my task list. i could plan each half hour of my day to fit everything in, and likely get a lot done, but i dont think i would be very happy. my pH wants a little looseness, some freedom. but i’m realizing that if i plan a little and am productive with my plans, then there can be ample time to flit and float about the rest of my day. or at least the portions of my day that i have planned for freedom.

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organization takes time. it’s a search inside for what’s really important. and that to me is a pretty important task in itself.

have you started planning your year yet? what tools do you use to stay organized? wouldn’t it be fun to be organized using all of these pretty tools?

credits / office space : found here

 

 

 

SOME THINGS / 4

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1. all smiles at breakfast time is golden.
2. this past weekend was a rainy one. so fort building was on the agenda and i think it’s gonna be a thing in our house from now on. or at least for this long cold winter we are about to enter. it’s such a cozy thing to snuggle under blankets together and read a gazillion books together.
3. baby legs and new pj’s. that is all.
4. oh hello. this is toque 2/2 and i’ll be wearing it for at least half of the time you see me for the next 6 months. don’t tell me i didn’t warn ya.
5. daani’s been real helpful lately. everything she does now is because she’s “this much” (said while holding up three fingers.) i love this extra confidence and sense of capability in her.
6. a semi-throwback of me and him from a few weeks ago. we have almost no pictures of us anymore. so when i saw this on his phone i grabbed it immediately for my own records.
7. attempted beet frites yesterday, and they were eh…. gotta experiment with the cook times a bit. i still chomped them all up, the girls… not so much. i snacked on them while preparing dinner and topped our salad with a few of the extra crispy ones.
8. new print up in the shop. for me it’s a reminder of who this is all for. a You and only You kinda thing.
9. a little blurry mirror selfie. maybe not the prettiest, or most clear shots, but i like it.
10. we almost switched niyya’s crib into a toddler bed this weekend, but i got cold feet even though we switched daani from crib to bed at about the same time. i can’t, or maybe just don’t want to imagine her as a big girl. im being a little too sentimental about this, but if you can’t be sentimental about your own kids, then who on earth can you be that way with?! it will have to happen soon though, daani wants to be able to hang with her sissy in the mornings and after quiet time. she want to crawl in her bed and cuddle with her and “take all the things.”

AND ALLAH IS WITH THE PATIENT

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my father in law is sick.
like, really sick.

and it came on so suddenly and his condition worsened so quickly that it’s hard to keep my feelings in check. and trust me, it’s been a roller-coaster of them. as you can imagine it’s an emotional time for my husband and our family.

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and for as fast as his sickness came it will be just the opposite for his healing. this is going to take some time. we are well aware of that. and prepared for it.

AND ALLAH IS WITH THE PATIENT / THE HEIFER 249 /tahsin, the good.

INSHA’ALLAH WE’VE GOT TIME.

it’s just hard to go through it, you know. it’s hard to see my family hurt so much, but i’m so proud of them for their courage and faith in the face of such scary things. together, we are finding comfort in prayer and dua and small signs of improvement as the days pass since last week around this time when he was admitted.

it just goes to show how small we are, right? how fragile. my father is law is a very fit, lively and active man and something so simple literally knocked him out. we may think have have control of things, but we actually do not.

THERE ARE BIGGER THINGS AT PLAY.

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so cherish your loved ones. appreciate life.

AND THE FLEETING MOMENTS YOU HAVE HERE ON THIS EARTH AND DO GOOD WITH THEM.

listen, i’m not trying to sound preachy here; i’m totally taking this advice too.

and please, if you can and are so inclined, make a small prayer for my father in law. my husbands father. my children’s only living grandfather.i truly believe prayers are the most powerful tool we have. don’t you think?

x

photo credit /

GET THAT SHOT ‘SHOP / NEW CLASS

the next get that shot ‘ shop dates are up. the last two workshops were really awesome, but because the class is so packed with information and tips i kept running out of time to get the class to put into practice the things learnt. and i really felt like that was a problem. i wanted so badly to actually physically be there to assist my students in setting up their shots, helping them with the editing process so they could find their own personal filter, and taking that extra time to munch on snacks and talk to everyone in the class.

SO I TWEAKED THINGS A BIT. BECAUSE THAT’S WHAT YOU DO WHEN YOU FEEL LIKE THINGS NEED A CHANGE.

so now, the timing for the workshop is a little bit longer and the cost is a little bit more. now when you register for the class you’ll get a half day workshop out of it with just enough time to cover all the bases. and for those of you who are new here and have no idea what i’m talking about, check this.

get that shot ‘shop is a mobile photography workshop i created for you to learn how to take better photos using the camera you seem to pick up majority of the time for your blog, business or home photos. it’s a response to so many of my friends asking me how i get my pictures to look the way they do. and i give it all away. really, i do. i want you to be happy with the photos you take so you can be excited to look back on them and proud to share them.

and just to be clear, i’m in no way saying that dslr’s or better quality cameras are unimportant. because i soo am not. they definitely have their place. it’s more let’s make the photos we take with our mobile phones way better. because we take way more photos with them. right? but you can easily parlay some of the tips you learn into your experiences with photography in general. regardless of what camera you use.

THE “AHA” MOMENTS ARE HONESTLY THE BEST.

and then seeing the outcomes of the class makes me so happy. check the hashtag #getthatshotshop on instagram to see some of my favourite shots and my students new skills at work.

you can read more about it here and also register for the next class which will be on saturday october 4th from 10-1pm here.

here are a few snaps of the last few workshops -

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goodie bags/mini polka-dotted rice bag pouches included monogramed notebooks, a cheat sheet on the workshop topics, and a set of notecards from light+good.

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and here are some “best in class” shots. you know who you are.

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so whether you are interesting in ambling your skills for your next vacation, the launch of your online shop, or simply want to take better photos of your ever-growing kids, come. you can guarantee you will learn at least one trick or two, taking your photos from being ehh to ooooohhhhh!

again, you can register for the next class which will be on saturday october 4th from 10-1pm here.

x,

 

 

 

#SOPTEAPARTY

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holy mother, it’s been a while. the last month has been busy busy to say the least (ramadhan, nights of qadr, my first pop-up shop, camp, eid, the salad exchange, the #mvbbq… phew! that was. mouthful!) and it all comes to a head today with my second pop-up shop for light + good at the silk of paradise tea party.20140816-014332.jpg

i met sundus, the mind behind this party and online shop of fun costume jewelry, at a meet and greet in the city back in april and keep, happily, bumping into her at different events since then. she’s a pretty rad girl doing so many different things (full-time jobbing, blogging, night-time jewelry ‘slinging, event organizing,) I was really excited she asked me to take part in her tea party.20140816-014321.jpgit’s going to be fun, so come out with your girls, your fam or your man for some local shopping, cupcake-eating and davids tea-drinking. yep, this girl got davids tea to sponsor her party, so this ain’t gonna be your gramma’s cuppa. not to say that’s bad or anything, but you get my drift. so come and sip a little forever nuts or kokomo green with us (those are my two favourites!)

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oh, and it’s a free event, so you can spend more at my booth! lol.

no, seriously.

i’m going to have a selection of prints, some new notecards, tassels, kid necklaces, tees and some other goodies with me. cash is king, but I’ll take your plastic too. 😉

here are the deets -

silk of paradise anniversary tea party pop up
artscape youngplace
180 shaw street
toronto, ontario
today from 12-9pm
click here for more info and to rsvp if you are so inclined.

i really hope to see some of you there!

so anyway, that’s where i’m at these days. back to a bit more regular programming here on the blog in the next little bit. and i’ve got lots to fill you in on. hope you’re all well!

besitos mamis,

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